Erin's Heart
Today (November 13, 1998) is my daughter, Erin's, 8th birthday.
After she was born, my Rotary Club became involved in a municipal project.
We helped build the Maritime Memorial Park. It is the only park of its kind on
the west coast of North America. Its purpose is to commemorate those who lost
their lives at sea.
The center piece of the park is a Japanese fishing boat. This boat has quite
a story. It was found floating off the coast of the Queen Charlotte Islands in
the late 50's. It was stored in various places until it came to one of the
city's aldermen. He found the wife of the owner of the boat in Osawa, Japan, and
told her that her husband's boat was here. Evidently he had left to go fishing
one day and never returned. So they asked her permission to put the boat in the
park. She told them that her husband was very proud of the boat and kept it in
top condition. If they would restore it, they would have her permission. So they
worked on the boat for three years, getting it back into shape.
A native artist was commissioned to paint the story of the boat as a fund
raising event. His painting showed in the native style the fisherman leaving
Japan, dying at sea, the sea spirits guiding him to the Great Spirit, the boat
floating across the ocean. They went over to Osawa and presented a copy of the
painting to the widow. She was very moved, as in the Japanese tradition, someone
lost at sea is forever lost. She said that night was the first night she had
been at peace it over 30 years.
The day of the opening of the park saw her, her family, the mayor of Osawa,
and other Japanese dignitaries celebrate with us. It was a beautiful sunny day.
In addition to the boat there were plaques of the building of Three Rock
Lighthouse, treaties, and other historical events. They built two brick walls
about 4 feet high. One for those who died at sea and one for those who loved the
sea/died by the sea.
Four months later, the winter gales had settled over Prince Rupert. The rain
and wind were something to behold. I could hardly keep my feet. A good friend of
mine came into the store with information he knew I wanted. It is finally here,
he said. I went out into the storm to see for myself.
Our home there was very close to the store. It was very dark when I arrived
there, I told Lisa we are going out. I wouldn't tell her where. We bundled 2
year old John up. Soon we were standing in the downpour, in front of the brick
wall for those who died by the sea. There was a new brick in the wall.
Inscribed on it is:
"Erin Elisabeth Paton
Seven hours of Joy"
And the heavens added their tears to ours.
After I wrote this, my friend, Vivien, sent me the following:
To Scott
When somebody dies, a cloud turns into an angel, and flies up to tell
God to put another flower on a pillow. A bird gives the message back to the
world, and sings a silent prayer that makes the rain cry. People disappear, but
they never really go away. The spirits up there put the sun to bed, wake up
grass, and spin the earth in dizzy circles. Sometimes you can see them dancing
in a cloud during the day-time, when they're supposed to be sleeping. They paint
the rain- bows and also the sunsets and make waves splash and tug at the tide.
They toss shooting stars and listen to wishes. And when they sing wind- songs,
they whisper to us, don't miss me too much. The view is nice and I'm doing just
fine. - Ashley
Remembering with you the gift of Erin. Your very special angel girl love and
blessings
- Vivien